Personalised silk butterfly | Memorial keepsake gift | funeral gift

$51.60

Spend $71.85 and get 25% off your order
Shipping to United States: $15.02



This beautiful silk butterfly is the perfect meaningful keepsake gift. Expertly personalised with an image of your choice.

Many people contact me to say a butterfly has landed on them after the passing of a loved one, my Memory Butterflies are a lovely way to mark that connection and make beautiful keepsakes and gifts.

I make lots of these for Brides to add into their wedding bouquets so that 'Mum' or "Grandma' can walk down the Aisle too.

These also make a lovely 12-year Anniversary gift as they are made from silk, I can add images from your wedding day to the wings too!

The silk is gently treated so the butterfly holds its shape and to prevent them from fraying and to ensure your butterfly stays in perfect condition for many years to come.

🦋You can choose to have your Memory Butterfly with the following fixings -

1. 32mm aligator clip
2. Re positional Glue dot (Best if you are thinking of framing your butterfly)
3. Neodymium Magnet


🦋You can choose a pattern too -

1. Script - a subtle cursive style handwriting (you cannot read the individual words)
2. Floral - a pretty floral flourish.
3. Plain - no extra pattern.

The gift card has the quote 'Those we love don't go away' on the back, if you prefer a blank card for you to write your own message please message me when you send the photo.

I can't print custom quotes on the card, if you require a custom message please add this a 'gift note' with your order and it will print on the packing slip.

Please make your choices in the relevant drop down boxes.

Each butterfly measures approximately 9cm across, but I can make them slightly smaller or larger if required.

Each butterfly comes presented in a beautiful hand stamped matchbox style gift box with a gift card as pictured, they make beautiful gifts and are light and easy to send in the post.

🦋After ordering, please send a separate message with your image - un cropped and the best quality you can get.🦋


The best images to use have a light background and a high resolution, but I can work with older photos and those with cracks or damage. Just be aware that the finished result may not be as clear as with a good quality one. Screen shots tend not to work very well due to their small file size, nor do photos of photos, a scanned in image works best.
I always take great care to produce beautiful results, please read my reviews!

This listing is for a SINGLE Memory Butterfly, if you would like to discuss a larger quantity please contact me for more details and prices.

PLEASE NOTE: This is a made to order item and shipping times may vary due to the number of commissions I'm currently working on. I aim to ship within 1 week from purchase.

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👉Please note: I am based in the UK 🇬🇧
✈️ INTERNATIONAL SHIPPING Please be aware that customs processing times do vary and delays are possible.
💶 The UK has left the EU and Import taxes might be applicable, please check your countries limits before ordering.
👉Check out my POLICY section for more info!
Thank you for your interest!

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    Frequently Asked Questions

    Custom and personalised orders

    These items are made to order and will take a few days to create. I am not currently accepting rush orders on these items.
    Custom orders are non refundable.

    Sizing details

    All the sizes are on the descriptions, but if you were wanting a custom size thats no problem, message me with your ideas!

    Care instructions

    My butterflies and moths are hand cut from silk and should be treated with care. Please don't get them damp or wet. They are gently treated to prevent fraying and should last for many years. They may require a light press with an iron or hair straighteners if they begin to curl. Keep them on their gift cards when not in use.

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    I can supply wholesale, please message me for more details

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    Custom and personalised orders

    Shipping upgrades are available at checkout. For UK orders I use Royal Mail Special Delivery and FedEx is available for International orders. Please message me for more details

    Shipping times

    I normally ship within 3 days of the order being placed, custom personalised orders may take a little longer. Etsy quote 'Delivery ESTIMATES' at busy times of the year this may be longer than estimated.

    Second beautiful butterfly I’ve purchased, and again it’s absolutely stunning. The seller also advised what would look best and helped me with the image.


    Beautiful item as a memorial gift. The seller took great care


    It is a beautiful piece that I got for my nephew to wear with a reminder of his mom on his wedding day!


    It’s perfect thank you so much!!


    This was such an important gift to me. It was beautiful and very thankful to have found this shop to trust in making it. It shipped directly to a friend who's son recently passed and she was so grateful and loved it so much.


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